Craigslist Gift for the Single Woman
It is called the boyfriend’s arm pillow and looking at the picture above, it certainly looks like a very comfortable one. Perhaps the thought of having a male arm to sleep on gives the feeling of warmth that translates to a better night sleep.
Well, whether it is really comfortable or not, I wouldn’t know exactly but at least I do see 2 distinct advantages here:
It doesn’t snore, and
It wouldn’t move and wake you up because of the need to get some blood circulating in the arm.
Anyway, from what I read, this pillow was created by a Japanese company and when it was launched a few years ago, it sold more than a thousand pieces. Maybe by now, it would have sold many more. I guess the creators of the pillow were just smart enough to exploit the human tendency to crave for companionship and women’s love for an arm to lie on.
So, if a woman wants some manly comfort, this certainly looks like a good subsitute. Furthermore, besides providing the illusion of having someone next to you, it doesn’t make demands when all you want to do is sleep. So, who needs the real thing, right?
No, but that’s due entirely to my displeasure with the legal structure of marriage as it currently exists. I would absolutely commit myself to a monogamous relationship with a woman who’d been a sex worker of any stripe.
As I’ve said before, all I care about is we’re both clean and digging each other. Everything beyond that is gravy.
I think it’s naive to think that someone choosing the sex trade as opposed to working at McDonalds doesn’t come with some baggage that is going to pop it’s ugly head at the most inopportune times.
We can be PC all we want but there is a meaning behind that choice that needs a lot of therapy or personal shit worked out or it’s just going to be drama drama drama. Something where you give up your value or your core for money you either have to have something happened to you as a child or distanced yourself so emotionally from sex that it means squat and it’s a struggle getting back to that place of balance again.